Learning & Building

Building a lifelong bond with another has to be intentional. Getting to know someone intimately is a beautiful thing. Not in the carnal sense of course, but knowing their habits and the like. Being the natural people watcher I am, I enjoy learning what makes one tick. What makes them get out of bed in the morning & on their mind as their head hits the pillow. That type of thing. However, getting to that point of intimacy can prove to be an arduous task even in the realm of only building a friendship. Like many, what I'm looking for (need) is much deeper and more involved than that. Learning another is much like a chess game in that they watch your every move & counter (most times) accordingly.